Why should men actually marry women?

God, I never want to get remarried if I divorce. I don't want to share ets, I don't want to share expenses.If I did live with the person I wouldn't want to take a cell phone out in my name. In a perfect world I would be divorced right now. My husband that doesn't like to work could come over and baby sit while I am at work, so it would be like 50/50 custody and I wouldn't want a dime from him. I don't ever want to depend on a man for anything. I don't want to depend on anybody for anything. My husband because we had to make joint decisions when it comes to the house refused me to be a stay at home mom and earn money by doing a home daycare because a kid might get hurt. So now I spend a lot less time with my kids and he spends a lot more and he bi*ches about having to work part time so we can afford groceries, diapers, gasoline, and his cigarettes. He already told me he would prefer in one way for me to take a second job so he can be a stay at home day and to quote him "Play video games all day". I married a f$cking child. Or at least that is how I feel about him. If I divorced him right and got custody I wouldn't even get enough child support to buy all the groceries my kids eat or pay for a babysitter. I'd get $75 every other week that is 25% of his income. I'd have to take in a roomate to help with bills or do a night daycare. But hey that's life. I can't afford to divorce him unless I get government istance. I might just have to sit it out and pay for everything until I finish school to become an RN. But hey that's my life.