Real soap opera question....?

i have a friend who is a foreigner, she is a prof psychologyst for disabled children, she got married to a guy who told her he was dying of an incurable diease, but guess what? after seven years he's till alive! it was a lie to use her money to come to america. they got a son togetherm now they're getting divorced. he's the type of guy that consider women to be dull. he's an aries by the way! now she all got screwed up and to revenge against him, she started flirting with me. but i am gay! and although we are great friends, i told her i am not gonna do that. she asked me to at least pretend, but i also sad no, because her ex husband is my friend too despite anything. moreover, he's very cute too. so now she broke our friendship and the latest news is that she's been hanging out with a butch girl. when her ex husband knew of this, now he's trying to get the custody of the six year ol child, who's struggling a lot seeing everything happening. how can i be helpful to the three of them?